Noted events in her life were:
• Sur Name: From ET Gray's family tree chart.
• Cemetery: Rural Cemetery, 1842, Oswego Town, Oswego, New York. Harvey Gray Family Plot
Obedience married Harvey Gray, son of David Gray and Clarissa Patchin. (Harvey Gray was born in 1809 in New York and died on 17 Jan 1863 in Oswego, New York.)